I know there are many people here who say that they hate smokers, that smoking is a deal-breaker, that they wouldn't date a smoker. But imagine if your absolute perfect dream girl/guy came along, s/he was everything you've ever wanted both looks and personality wise, except their one and only flaw was that they were a smoker, smoked cigarettes everyday. Would you really not date them just because of that? Would it still break the deal?
I'm one of those people who don't like smokers, I find smoking disgusting, I hate the smell and all that. But I feel like if the guy was otherwise perfect for me, he had everything else going for him, I would still date him, I'd just have to learn to live with that one flaw. I couldn't let an amazing guy slip out of my fingers just because he's a smoker.
- It would still be a deal-breaker, I wouldn't date them54% (15)67% (22)61% (37)Vote
- It wouldn't be a deal-breaker, I would date them32% (9)27% (9)30% (18)Vote
- Results / I myself am a smoker / I have no problem at all dating smokers in general14% (4)6% (2)9% (6)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
It wouldn't be a deal breaker, if she was prepared to be "reasonable" in terms of where to smoke. Not inside the house, for example. And not in the car.
I wouldn't run away from someone I love but I obviously don't want to get lung cancer from passive smoking :o1
Most Helpful Girl
I would try to get them to quit. Why would I date someone who, every day, damages their lungs... oh lungs, they aren't important or anything.
My ideal perfect guy wouldn't smoke. But if the guy was pretty close, I would give him a chance. I would really prefer if he would quit though.
And just to be cute and make everyone gag, my boyfriend doesn't smoke. So, my dream guy is perfect :3333333