Im not huge but im definitly not small. Im worried my weight will keep me from finding someone. i have been trying to lose weight though not for guys but for myself. but i would like to find someone who likes me. but im worried my weight will be a problem.
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Why would it? The only reasons to lose weight are either
a.) so that you can be comfortable with your size (not for someone else) or
b.) so that you can be healthy and not face health risks of obesity (which is not necessarily a problem if you're only a little bigger rather than actually obese which is a more serious health concern)
If I were ever with a woman and her size bothered me, it would only be because I was concerned about her health. If she was a little bigger, it wouldn't bother me. If she was a little smaller, it wouldn't bother me. If she was really obese and was at risk for serious health conditions, then her weight would bother me not because it would be something that was making her suffer and that would concern me. It's not going to make more people you or less people like you by losing weight. If it's a "problem" for someone, find someone else because your appearance shouldn't ever be a "problem" to the person that loves you. If it's ever anything it would be concern but that's only if you were at risk for serious medical conditions which is unlikely if you've just got a little extra flab. Besides, a lot of guys are totally into it, as well. In fact, I like a little bigger, anyways.1