There is this guy that is 11 years younger than me. First I didn't dare to flirt but when I did he flirted back. So I sent him a request on facebook. We talked a little bit. He was nice and complimented me (said I was beautiful). But his answers were very short and he didn't answer some questions. I assumed he might prefer to meet and talk in person instead so I asked him if he wanted to meet. He suggested to go have a coffee and asked me where I want to go. I suggested a place and asked him what time is convenient for him. He replied after 5 days, just saying the place I suggested is fine. But he didn't answer my question when we should meet... i wonder if he really wants to meet. i also suspect he might be shy and is a bit afraid of meeting. He is only 19 :-/...
Is he not really interested or is it something else?
And also how should I react?
- He is not really interested71% (5)0% (0)50% (5)Vote
- He is afraid of meeting14% (1)67% (2)30% (3)Vote
- None of the two15% (1)33% (1)20% (2)Vote
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Hard to say. The likeliest explanation is that he's just a really immature guy, which I suppose is normal for his age.
The impression I'm getting is that he isn't really interested. Sorry to say. If he were interested I'd expect a greater degree of motivation and basic courtesy.
It's always exciting to explore the prospect of a new romance, maybe especially when there's something unusual or a bit transgressive about it, like an age difference. So I understand why you're intrigued by the possibility. My advice would be to play it cool and let him make any further moves.
I hope this works out for you and at the same time I suspect your future lies elsewhere. :) Good luck.1
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