Met him on POF, he's a bit older, we talk on the phone and Skype a lot.
I am a complete virgin, not had my first kiss, h's slept with some previous girlfriends. We're both average looking but he's definitely had/ kissed some above average girls, so I guess that raises pressure and makes me feel insecure. We've spoken for about 2 months, is it completely stupid to meet up with him? We have said that the first time will just be an icebreaker, see how we are around each other.
I realise how naive and innocent I sound in this, and it seems like he's using me, but this is just an overview, ask more and I'll answer if feel comfortable about to. Thanks
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Most Helpful Guy
POF is a hookup site, I used to use it as did guys I worked with, it was just scoping out naive girls to bang. You should probably avoid.1
Most Helpful Girl
I said don't do it but if you really like the guy and really want to meet him make sure it's daytime and somewhere very public. Just watch out ok. There are some weird people out there. Best of luck to you!1