I'm not complaining, and don't get me wrong, I get dates and stuff, but the guys are complete slime balls. They just end up being with me just to get sex and I never get respected. They cheat on me and then get with a skinny chick, even one of my exes sent me a pic randomly of his new girlfriend and she's thin and I know he did that to throw it in my face. I do respect myself as in I leave the situation but I feel like I have to change myself physically just to get an ounce of respect from a guy. I know girls who are thin have the same issues but its like they have a better chance than i do of finding a guy worthwhile.
Most Helpful Guy
That's because thinner healthy weight girls do have a better chance. If you take care of yourself, men will notice... and the same is true for men as well.4
Most Helpful Girl
Unfortunately skinny chicks get cheated on and have problems finding a decent guys.
You don't need a perfect body to find a good man. You need to good and interesting person to find a good man.
Beauty is only skin deep. If you go after someone just because they beautiful but don't have anything to talk about, it's going to get boring fast. You want to look beyond the surface and see if you can have fun or if you have anything in common with this person.2