I guess I just don't understand the thought processes behind someone who fears intimacy when they encounter someone loving and caring that wants to work with them. Why push them away?
Commitment phobes: why push good men and women away when they care and want to work with you?
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Not sure if it'd qualify as him being a commitment-phobe as we've been together for a year and a half, things are still good. When marriage comes up though, with more and more people asking us about that, he told me just last week why he's not planning to get married atm. He was cheated on by his ex, who was his first serious girlfriend. He had put all in with her, really gung-ho and supposedly thought she was 'the one'.
Doesn't push me away but yeah, marriage in the future is not on the able because of this ex.0
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