Ok so I've been dating this guy since March. He's only been in 2 other relationships and both those girls cheated so I knew when it came to emotional stuff I'd have to take it extra slow, which considering my last breakup more than a year ago I was more than happy to do.
Anyways it took us dating about 2 months before he even started calling me his girlfriend, but aside from the lack of labels this relationship has been one of the best and healthiest I've been in.
Now getting to the point of my question about 3 weeks ago we went out and got extremely drunk (not a usual occurrence btw) so at one point we bump into these friends of his and they start saying how lucky he is cuz I'm such a good girlfriend. So I start getting all cocky and being like jaja told you I'm a better girlfriend than you are boyfriend. And then we got into a silly argument over who's the better bf/gf. So i dont know he somehow brought up that he loves my personality and I played it off and then he said i fucking love you. Which I don't remember what I said or what happened next cuz as I mentioned we were extremely drunk. Anyways the next day I remembered everything from that night but he forgot a bunch of different things so I didn't want to bring that up. So that was 3 weeks ago, than this weekend we were hanging with each other's family and as my cousin leaves he's like take care of her and he's like of course, come on man I love her. And when I was getting to know one of his cousins she's like I've heard so much about you. So I asked like what? And she's like oh you know he just won't shut up about how much you do for him and how unlike any other girl you are and just how much he loves you. To which I smiled but again was kind of caught off guard.
So I guess my question is what do you guys think I should do, just ignore it and see if it should come up again or should I just say it to him and hope he says it back?
Also if you think I should say it, what's the best way?
Anyways it took us dating about 2 months before he even started calling me his girlfriend, but aside from the lack of labels this relationship has been one of the best and healthiest I've been in.
Now getting to the point of my question about 3 weeks ago we went out and got extremely drunk (not a usual occurrence btw) so at one point we bump into these friends of his and they start saying how lucky he is cuz I'm such a good girlfriend. So I start getting all cocky and being like jaja told you I'm a better girlfriend than you are boyfriend. And then we got into a silly argument over who's the better bf/gf. So i dont know he somehow brought up that he loves my personality and I played it off and then he said i fucking love you. Which I don't remember what I said or what happened next cuz as I mentioned we were extremely drunk. Anyways the next day I remembered everything from that night but he forgot a bunch of different things so I didn't want to bring that up. So that was 3 weeks ago, than this weekend we were hanging with each other's family and as my cousin leaves he's like take care of her and he's like of course, come on man I love her. And when I was getting to know one of his cousins she's like I've heard so much about you. So I asked like what? And she's like oh you know he just won't shut up about how much you do for him and how unlike any other girl you are and just how much he loves you. To which I smiled but again was kind of caught off guard.
So I guess my question is what do you guys think I should do, just ignore it and see if it should come up again or should I just say it to him and hope he says it back?
Also if you think I should say it, what's the best way?
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