I graduated college a couple months ago. Throughout my 4 years in college I never asked a woman out or even attempted to date. I would go to class, go to work, and go home. Nobody in my family had ever graduated from college so I was primed to be the first. I only focused on work and school. The girls who did like me I ignored them because I didn't want to be distracted from my goal. Because of this choice I was called a failure and was told I wasted the best years of my life. Am I really a failure for this?
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You're still really young.
You're not even half way through mid life span.
It's not over yet.
"The race is not for the fastest, it is for the swiftest".
You can still accomplish all that you want with the ladies.
Just put yourself out there.
Go out to different places, and introduce yourself.
Try to strike up conversation.
There's plenty of people just getting their life started in their early 30s... you haven't run out of time.1