I see a lot of girl my age getting asked out easily by guys but guys just don't talk to me. The odd thing is they just stare at me to death. I grew to really like a guy who watch me everyday but he never talked to me. I get so lonely and sad because I think well what's wrong with me that men are so speechless with me. I see some of the most plain to ugly women with boyfriends. I just get stares. I get stared at by women as well but that's another story. It sucks because I want to go out and spend time with the opposite sex and have fun and eat and get to know each other. I actually told the guy that stared at me everyday that I like him and he ignored my advances. I even see guys asking girls out on social media lol and think lucky them and wish a guy would come to me and ask me for my time. I know it will happen someday but it's lonely for me now.
Most Helpful Guy
Well, how much do you put yourself out there? You keep saying people stare at you all the time, but you never initiate anything with them, you're not making yourself approachable. Yes, you did tell that one guy you are interested in him, but that's just one guy. (Also keep in mind that just because you got rejected doesn't mean it's the end of the world.)
From what you've said, it seems you're just waiting for Mr. Perfect to magically appear in front of you and ask you out. Well lemme tell you something, that's not how it works. There needs to be some kind of connection first before anybody is gonna ask you out. And you can do that by putting yourself out there, initiating conversations with people, and making it known you are an approachable person!
It's not a guys job to do 110% of the work. You're part of this too. You can talk to guys, you can ask for a guys number, and you can be the one to ask the guy out! There's no rule against that.0
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Most Helpful Girl
People are just like you don't be so stuck up and try to talk to people first. I do t think they're staring at you either I'm sure they're showing interest in you and may feel shut down at times if you're too reserved. Being shy is okay but just try to get out of your shell and mingle people are nice enough they don't bite0
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