What do you notice first when you meet a girl? What stands out to you?
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The only important attribute is if they like me or not, as long as they are not extremely ugly. I don't have the ability to choose which women I get, so its not relevant. Almost no women like me, so them liking me for who am is very attractive. I have yet to find a girl who just likes me for my persoanlity--my looks get me somewhere, but after a few dates and some conversation women only see me as a friend and make it impossible to escalate sexually. Its bullshit quite frankly/ So for most guys its irrelevant to be picky. Girls have the ability to be picky, but unless you're a rich, attractive, super charming stud, you don't have the option of picking women's traits. I simply hope that a girl appreciates me for who I am and can get past whatever it is about me that makes me sexually unappealing.1