My guy have cheated on me in the past which cause us to go on the break during the break we still did hang out and sleep together but because it was a break he met a girl and they started fooling around I guess it was a fling or an affair he have now said he will stop it I hope he will. during the break I did kiss a other guy and I did feel guilty I did tell him. I know we are trying to work things out the though have cross my mind how hooking up with someone else I know it wrong I guess it would be good revenge it would ruin everything ... I know revenge isn't the answer why am I feeling this way. we are trying to work things out
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Revenge never makes things right. If you want to be with him make your choice now. Because if you do this it could potentially backfire. You could end up on the side of hurt and he will feel justified to have cheated in the past.
My safe advice would be to just let him go. You are to young to be allowing someone to take you through so much drama. & he doesn't seem to be ready for a long term relationship.
Vengeance is mine said the Lord.
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