Alright so I plan on hanging out with this girl, and I'm pretty sure we're gonna hit up the beach. Then after that I figured I'll take her mini golfing or something dumb like that. Thing is, I'm the type of weirdo who hates going out to eat, at least to a legit place and not some quick bite to eat type deal.
How can I go about avoiding this? I can bring food to the beach I guess? I really have no idea what she likes to eat though. I'd just really like to break the ice and get to know her before going out to eat if that makes any sense
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That makes complete sense to me. Eating though can be a social thing and a great way to get to know her. I like the idea of a picnic, the best thing you can do is just straight up ask her what type of food she likes. Surprise her with a picnic at the beach. It will be a great way to get a sense of her personality.
Another option is to just go to the beach, then mini golf as you planned. If everything goes well, then you can ask her if she'd like to go somewhere to eat (doesn't have to be a fancy sit down place). You can always take her to a fast food place on the beach, and I'm sure she will love it either way.
One of my most favourite dates was when my boyfriend and I went walking along the board walk at the beach. We held hands the entire time and just talked. It was just so romantic, I just love that we got to have that experience. It didn't cost us anything and it was nice to have that time alone to just get to know each other.1