Most Helpful Girl
I would dump her to be honest. I could understand if they were just platonic friends, but based on the description that's out of the question. Her ex is clearly crossing the line and being just as disrespectful towards your relationship as she is. An ex, I could expect trying to stir up the pot, but if your girlfriend is just sitting back and allowing it without a word then why are you wasting your time? If that were me, I would've blocked him a long time ago especially if he were crossing the line. Even if she is getting some sort of kicks off of him chasing after her, it only highlights her lack of maturity to be in this relationship and dare I say highlights that she hasn't completely moved on. Some people have exes that won't leave them alone and continue to pop up to stir things up and a lot of those people eventually put restraining orders on them but theirs a difference between that and refusing to do anything and allowing it to continue, Has she even told him to cut it out? or Is she crossing the line (even a little) with him too? I don't know all the detail, but you need to decide for yourself whether you want to put up with it some more or not. If you express to her that you don't like this and it's bothering you and she doesn't give a crap enough to respect your feelings and cut him off, then kick her ass to the curb so she can continue playing cat and mouse with her ex. Exes can be friends, but this is not a friendship. Anyone, interested in the future don't waste time living in the past. Remember actions speak louder than words and her actions will surely tell you what you need to know, no matter what sweet talk comes out of her mouth.0
Most Helpful Guy
I was thinking. Oh she still wants to be friends until I read 'sexual pictures...'
I'm sorry to say this but... That guy sends sexual pictures, and tells you to get out... and She STILL has not blocked the guy after all that?
I'm sorry but she might still have feelings for him.
If I had an ex who acted like that, I would have blocked her immediately. We're not together anymore, you can't tell me what to do. I'm together with this new girl now, because she's more considerate, loyal and understanding. Don't sabotage my love life. Leave me along and move on already.0