I don't really consider this guy my friend anymore but this is what he does. He hugs my girlfriend for a prolonged period of time. I see him constantly staring at her boobs (his eyes makes things very obvoius). He also sits beside her first if we're out with friends. Finally he has to hang out with her, just them two (my girlfriend declined and now thinks he's a creep). I called him out on this things and he tell me i'am paranoid and he wants to spend time with my girlfriend. I told him that she is not intersted in him and he should stop. I could tell he got mad.
My girlfriend truly doesn't like him. So what do you think?
Most Helpful Girl
Yup... sounds like he's definitely into her. It's fine to like someone else's partner I think, as long as you don't act out on your feelings. But he's definitely acting out on his feelings, regardless if they're purely sexual or actually emotional too. :/ Definitely not a good friend in my opinion, and even your girlfriend can sense it... to the point where she thinks he's actually being creepy. Trust your gut and your girlfriend, your so called "friend" is definitely bad news.1
Most Helpful Guy
Normally I would say you are being paranoid, but this is some grade a red flag material here on his part...
You are not even that great of friends to start with, he goes out of his way to hang out with her alone, openly checks her out and makes moves that even she is picking up on.
I met one of best friends in the world as the girlfriend to one of my best friends, but we had complete trust between us all and I never made any of these moves and she never felt like i was coming on to her. As I said, normally I would say don't worry about it, but this is bad. Plus she doesn't even want to hang out with him! So at least you have no problem with worrying about her, just him being a creep.0