I've gotten over 100 messages in the past week and all the attractive and decent ones are after hookups or don't respond and the ones that message me (usually desperately) are all not my type or unattractive. What gives?
Why is it that so many guys on a DATING site are after casual sex, like why not use a site thats for casual sex like Fuckbook. com? I'm interested in something longterm, not casual, isn't that what OkCupid is for?
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If you go to a dating site where males do not have to pay to meet you.. you are going to meet the lowly scum of the earth males who are trying to troll for sex.
POF, OKCupid, CasualKiss... All garbage scum hook up sites.
If you want to meet a guy actually looking for a reputable connection... you have to go with a pay site.
If a guy has to pay and is willing to... he is obviously actually interested in meeting someone for more than just sex.0