Okay, so I'm 16, and as thirsty as this question sounds, it's not like that. I'm honestly just wondering why I can't get a guy, or keep guys out of the friend zone. I am not shallow when it comes to physical characteristics, I just want someone funny, smart, chill, and out going. But I am either the girl that guys come to when life gets weird, they need a favor, or they're single. If it's not one of those then it's to beg for nudes, and try to make passes at me like I'm hooker Hannah from the corner. And when I won't be sexual they get mad, and I just so happen to have a temper, which usually causes me to yell and swear at them. Which leaves me looking like a bitch, and oh they aren't afraid to let all their friends know I'm a "CRAZY BITCH." Or I have the guys who I can't help but friendzone because I'm not ready for their level of commitment, and then there's the guys (the ones I grew up with) who apparently don't care how much puberty I go through won't stop seeing me as the little girl who played football with them, and went around beating up boys. So I don't get it, I'm pretty chill, and loyal, and I'm always there for my friends, and I don't think I'm ugly I just don't know.
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Tbh your requirements seem a bit contradictory.
On the one hand, you don't want to commit, you want a cool, funny, outgoing guy, but on the other you get mad when guys show sexual intent.
I would have told you to go to a lot of parties in order to meet the type of guy (s) you want, and have the type of non-commited relationship (s) you want, but I won't because obviously they'll want something similar: no strings attached short sexual relationships.
I think your core issue is that you haven't really figured out what you want. I would just experiment.2
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