I was driving yesturday and i was going 20 over the speed limit and she bagn getting scared and started to complain. So i let off the gas a bit. 5 minutes later i picked up speed again hoping she would not notice then she said "seorusly stop it, i'am scared, what if we crash, then what will you do?". So i like to incorporare jokes when we argue just so it doesn't seem serous so then i said "this car proabably has a 5 star crash safty rating so we will survive!". Now she got really mad when i said. So then she was like "omg i'm not getting in the car with you again, you're not a racecar driver". Well since she insuted me i took a corner faster than normal and then she got all worried XD
Once we got to her house she was like "from now on i will drive since you can't".
Ok so who has the right in this one. I was going fast to have some fun with her, but is she over reacting here?
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I would say honestly, you're kind of in the wrong, all though you did as a joke, if she's seriously scared then you should've left it as that. In her perspective she may not be able to take a joke however, it's not a joke when it comes to both of your lives, not saying you'd crash but there's always what if's. So I wouldn't say you're in the 'wrong', but you definitely didn't listen to her wishes, especially when she has no control over the wheel in this sense.1