So I'm crushing really hard on this girl that a friend of mine introduced me to. She is the kind of girl I never knew existed.
She is very funny, relaxed, out-going and kind always smilling and joyfull. People really like to be around her she just makes everyone feel comfortable and amused and on top of that she is really hot, not the common hot, hot like in one of the most beuatiful girls I ever saw so obviously I'm not the only one crushing on her in fact I think every guy in my group as a thing for her, she is that special.
So how can I get her attention? And is it possible for me to get her since I'm quite average
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I read a really interesting article about this subject. It was a white guy that traveled to an Asian country and since he was tall and blonde all the girls were throwing themselves at him. He started to realize he could get any girl he wanted so for the first time in his life he was on the other side he was the "hot girl that everyone wants" and although it was cool at first after a while it was getting quite old, and he start seeing all the girls as the same (even the pretty ones) he said that the only girls he would pursue and find interesting was the ones that showed him something different.
That being the girl you are crushing is quite bored also, imagine having loads of guys crushing on you she probably only gets two kind of reactions:
-Guys who hit on her non stop and do everything to flirt, impress and please her
-Guys that to try stand out and show that her beauty doesn't affect them, do the opposite ignoring her, being kind of mean or being overly serious
So when interacting with her try to not fall in these 2 categories show her something different0