I wanted to wait until I was happy with myself and my life to start dating. In university, I was still try to understand what my identity and values were. After university, I was at home for a few years and working term jobs that I wasn't happy with. I had to move frequently and didn't want to get involved with anyone. I turned down dates because I wasn't happy enough with myself to have anyone else in my life.
Now I'm 28. I have a great job, a nice home, friends and even a little cat. I feel like I'm emotionally, mentally and financially ready to share my life with another person. The thing is now I'm totally behind. Everyone is settling down and I haven't even gotten to square 1. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
What you do
Firstly, stop questioning yourself and worrying about others.
Secondly, build up your self esteem and confidence
Thirdly, be open to any eventuation and rather than say no, say yes more often to dates and invites to social gatherings0
Most Helpful Girl
there is no fix age to start dating.. many people of your age are single because they tried and could not find the right one.. so you are not behind.. just go out and find your man..0