I'm 17 and I only had my first kiss yesterday. The issue I'm having is that I've always loved the idea of kissing someone, being in a relationship, having sex etc, however I hated kissing! I don't know why and now the thought of being in a relationship and sex and everything else completely scares me, who doesn't like kissing? I thought you would at least feel something, but it was just your lips moving with another persons lips, it didn't feel good and was very underwhelming. Now I'm terrified of all of that stuff and I don't know what to do, I've always been insecure about the sex part but now I know I don't even like kissing I'm stuck. I don't want to be alone forever, but how can I stop myself feeling like this and just be normal?
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Dont worry it feels weird the first time but you'll get better at it. Try not to think about it too much while you're kissing and let yourself go. You'll see! And no there's nothing wrong with you!! I've have the same thoughts as you but we just have to go at our own pace! Dont rush things. If it hasn't happend yet its NO big deal trust me.0