He is the perfect guy... He doesn't want nudes, he's not a fuckboy like honestly why don't I like him. He is kind of awkward and is kinda chubby but he would give me the world if he could... so what gives? can i make myself like him?
Most Helpful Guy
So then he's not perfect if you don't like him.0
Most Helpful Girl
Eh, it's tricky, I can sort of relate.
There was once this guy who I had a feeling had a crush on me, and other people thought so too. Honestly, he was the nicest guy I've ever known, the typical "good guy" but in the best way possible, he was a true gentleman, didn't smoke, drink, very intelligent, mature for his age. Also very good looking, not gonna lie. On the paper, the ideal guy pretty much. He once even sort of asked me out (I'm not sure, might have been a joke), but I just brushed it off. Despite all that, I couldn't force myself to like him. I didn't see him like that. Part of the reason might have been that I was terribly infatuated with another guy at that time, who wasn't that great, but I couldn't help it. The heart wants what it wants I guess, lol.
My point is, you can't choose who to crush on, it happens naturally, you basically have no control over that. That's why you don't like that guy. You're not meant to like him I guess. The world works in weird ways.0