My girlfriend took money from me and I yell at her. Who's wrong in this situation me or my girlfriend?

Usually my girlfriends really nice and sweet. But recently I figured out that she's been taking money from me without asking. I don't care that she's taking money I just care that she's lying to me not being honest, makes me feel like she doesn't really care about me and that she is just using me. The other day I caught her doing it, I ask her what she's doing. She says she didn't think I would care. I explained I don't really care I just think she's not being honest with me. I started yelling at her and she got upset and cried. Then I left. Who's wrong in this situation me or her?

  • She's wrong.
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  • Your wrong.
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  • I can't quite understand that you don't care that she's taking money from you! I would be livid if my partner took my money (or anything else that is mine), and I would never dream of taking my partner's money either. I guess we're just different in that aspect. But this mindset to just take and spend someone else's money is something I cannot comprehend.

    I believe you're well within you're right to be upset that she just took it without telling/asking you. I can't believe she believes she has a right to be upset when it's so blatantly obvious to everyone that it's not ok to just steal.

    Why does she even need your money? Does she not have a job? How long have you been together?

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    • We have been together for a few months. I don't care if she takes my money because her being dishonest with me is what really hurts. And yeah she does not have a job now.

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    • Okay i'll do that. Thank you.

    • Good luck to you and all the best. Also, thank you for MHO :)

What Girls Said 3

  • She's lucky all you did was yell at her. Some guys would have beat her ass. I don't really advocate men hitting women but she should at least get a strong backhand for that.

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  • The word you are looking for is STEALING. She has been STEALING money from you. Of course she is wrong.

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  • You don't take anyone else's money without asking, PERIOD. That's a basic moral concept everyone should've been taught as a child.

    She's not entitled to it. Doesn't matter if you're dating, married, whatever. It is NOT hers to spend as she chooses. You had every right to yell at her.

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    • I guess your right thanks.

What Guys Said 5

  • The fact she is intentionally acting behind your back is a calculated move to steal from you. Not cool.

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  • I think she's wrong but you should get her help.

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  • Its stealing plus what if she was giving it to someone else

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  • So she's a lying thief who is using you for your money, you yell at her, and you wonder if you're in the wrong.

    A grow a fucking sack and some goddamn self-respect. Dump the bitches ass, and fuck, press charges on her.

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  • It was wrong of her and you acted in an appropriate way kudos to you. But since she felt bad maybe she won't do it again

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    • She did feel guilty.

    • Maybe she genuinely thought it wasn't a big deal to take from you. so see it in a non Malicious way...

      Not worth breaking up for

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