I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months he knows I'm not big into all of the "couple stuff" but sometimes when he greets me he kisses me on the cheek. I usually just smile and say hi etc.
Is it possible for me to kiss HIM on the cheek? I feel like id make a fool of myself? Or could I turn the kiss on the cheek into a peck on the lips.? How do I do this? I just feel like I'm gonna make a fool of myself with the "couple" stuff although I am warming to the idea of it. Thank you xxxxxx
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You best bet (as a woman) in this case, is to offer really good hugs, with your head down in his chest. This is friendly, yet very feminine. You will reassure him, yet avoid the whole "uh oh, am I sending him the wrong messages" thing, but offering kisses placed millimeters from the "couples" zone of his lips. You best bet? You sound like a lady, so be one in his eyes. Put your arms around your boy and really hug him. Let him feel your heartbeat. This will also reveal if he is a gentleman (or not).
It's very tempting for us men to let our hands wonder on a woman holding us tight. If he shows you some respect (and restraint), he'll return your hug in kind - and keep his hands off your "couples" places, too.
Believe me, they'll be plenty of time for romantic kisses, if this is "your boy"... Remember one thing. You are the lady, you have the advantage here. EVERY real man, be he 14 or 40 pines for a good lady.1