- If I just want sex, I will ask her out a lot of times before I give up; If I want her to be my girlfriend, I will only ask her out once33% (10)
- If I love her, I will ask her out a lot of times before I give up; If I just want sex, I will only ask her out once67% (20)
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If I 'loved her' I'm unsure how I would be in a situation which required me to ask her out... are we talking about a friendship which got complicated or a one sides breakup perhaps?
And from what I've seen, guys interested in relationships are actually FAR less persistant than guys looking for sex. Most of my friends give up after one or two attempts... but some guys looking for sex will down right harrass a girl asking at every opportunity for years.
Hell if I actually loved a girl and she rejected me, I would let her go. That's clearly what she wants, and trying again and again will only result in me getting hurt and her getting annoyed.2