I have multiple worksites. I met a girl who started working at one a couple weeks ago. We made small talk for three or four days, it was light and friendly. Finally I asked her out as she was passing me in the hall. She got a huge smile and told me "Maybe, I'll let you know." She also mentioned she had just ended another relationship recently and had been kinda emotionally unstable, even took a day off work. She told me it took balls to ask her out too. She said she'd been asked by like 2 or 3 other guys as well. I told her I wasn't suprised. She was pretty much smiling the whole time. Later we even shared a work break and talked about other things, normal conversation. Before I left I told her I'd be waiting for "maybe" to become a "yes" but I didn't mind boosting her self esteem, in a joking way. Guess my question is, am I playing this right? Does she seem interested and do I ask again in a few days, possibly going bigger or smaller on the date?
Girls, "Maybe. I'll let you know," but huge smile?
What Girls Said 2
> am I playing this right? = Spot on, me thinks
> Does she seem interested = Yes, indeed but just window shopping for now
> do I ask again in a few days = Well, if accomplished in non-pressure sales way, just as reminder or better - a new event was just posted & you don't want to go alone... "this doesn't have to be a date", please
> possibly going bigger or smaller on the date? = I have to guess that this means "the date" aka "bait" might be more enticing if more or lesser a big deal? If so, the get together could be less a date (see above) but the content must always be more gal-fun, less guy-fun. e. g. dancing would be a great boon to your status but might be too much at first when a cozy art show w/wine or new bistro might serve as better icebreakers1
If she said "I will let you know" take her word, she will let you know. Do not ask her again because that may seem a bit desperate. Just wait some more days and if she doesn't let you know... She is probably not over her past relationship or she might not be interested.0
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