this guy has been flirting for a few motnhs now. We are both very attracted to each other, but he told me that nothing else can happen now as he has a girlfriend. They had a few problems, but it's getting better...
I've seen on the internet that people suggest staying friends...
i don't know if that is a good idea?
a friendship wouldn't work I think
Most Helpful Guy
i was kind of in the same situation as you. We flirted for a few months, it all went well. At some point she did and said some weird things, i got a bit mad. That broke it off for her (I didn't know at the time), but we stayed friends. After prom she got a boyfriend, (the one she went to prom with). I found out. We talked things out a bit, not completely though. I decided to stay friends. But after a few weeks i decided not to. Because it only gave me mental headaches to see them together. (also other things happened but they are not relevant to you)
Long story short, i think that you should break it off to spare you the suffering. A friendship might work, but not now. You need to emotionally cut him of and be at peace. After a few months/weeks you should be over them. So i advice you to not be friends, definitely when you feel like friendship won't work.1
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Most Helpful Girl
no.. don't do that to yourself.. not at all.. you will end up getting hurt while he will be busy banging his girlfriend.. why intentionally get a heartbreak?1