So i cheated on my boyfriend 3 years ago when i was in high school. Basically we dated for a year. And now 3 years down the road we decide to get back together. But for some reason after 3 years he can't get over the fact that I cheated. I was only barely 16 and now im a legal adult. He things i never changed. What can i do? And why is he still upset over 3 years! Im im college now and very different. But he thinks people dont change. What do i do? Please help.
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have you considered avoiding monogamous relationships? I mean, if you don't want to remain loyal (even if you think you do, you probably thought you did when you were younger as well, until the chance to not be loyal came up), why put yourself in a position in which loyalty is expected?
That said, it's possible you've become more interested in being loyal over the years, but I don't think this particular guy will ever be able to see it that way. You could propose the idea of having a semi-open relationship with him, in which you will not sleep with other guys but he is allowed to sleep with other girls. That's the only thing I can think of that will show him how serious you are.0