I need to know what I should do about my marriage; just a few minutes ago my husband got violent and hit me while we were in the car and on top of that destoryed some of the interior and cracked the windshield and was driving erratically where we almost got into a car accident.
All because I said something he didn't like; I said he needs to do things that he promises he will do.
I have no money of my own, no house and I don't drive. I will have nothing if I divorce him.
I've been trying to figure out how to to leave for a year now; it's not always this way but when it is I worry about my future.
On top of this I am talking to a man on the Internet that's just became homeless a few months ago after losing his job and his place to live.
He really cares about me; but I am taken and really have no way out. I am stuck...
What should I do? Be honest... I'm really alone and upset right now... This has happened so many times...
if you need more info I will give some more.
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You said, "I will have nothing if I divorce him."
What you would have is a life without domestic violence.
Contact a women's shelter near you and discuss this problem. They help women in situations similar to yours all the time. That's their job.
Once you're living independently--which is totally doable--then, after discussing the possibility openly, thoughtfully and carefully, you may choose to spend more time with the homeless guy, but you may not.
Take care of yourself. :)1
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