First of all, manners - An aggressive attitude probably the biggest turn-off.
Be mindful of your self-conduct, self-image, and self-respect.
Second, dress appropriately, and dress like a women - nothing screams class like a nice dress or skirt outfit with non-dominating accessories and make-up.
Heals if you can bear it, semi-flats are okay too.
A real man appreciates a well dressed woman.
I know dresses, skirts and heels aren't always convenient, but there are other options than jeans, spandex, sweatpants, t-shirts and sneakers.
Third, no ink under any circumstances. No piercings but for earrings. - They display short-term thinking, lack of foresight, and a rebellious attitude.
Fourth, No whoring around - A lady doesn't give it up to any guy who gives her attention. Learn to commit... it's not the end of the world.
Classy women attract classy men - if you want a good one, you've gotta be one.
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And just so it doesn't come off as women bashing...
Guys... learn how to act and dress like gentlemen, you look and act like slobs or street thugs..
And for christs sake... learn to respect good women, and stop treating them like cum dumpsters. Stop thinking with your dicks, you filth.
Just a little chivalry goes a long way.
Trust me on this... you'll be landing some classy chicks worth it all, if you do.
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From some of the responses, I guess I don't always go for the 'classy girls'. I like the ones that are true to themselves, and don't pretend to be 'upper class' or 'smart' or whatever!!
I've ADORED some that could drink me under the table, and others that can curse, to make a sailor blush!!
It's all about the person, and honesty, 'REALNESS' is most important to me!! Don't pretend to be something you aren't, because it always shows!!
I like the women that don't focus on the make-up, shoes, or clothes! She wears what she likes, and doesn't give a 'sht' if she has a panyline, because she is comfortable, wearing what she likes! As far as the hair, and nails, and paying $100's? None of those are at all what I want!
Sadly since I'm hot I tend to attract sluts (oh the struggles of being attractive! XD (sarcasm)). But my dream girl is the definition of classy. What I see as classy is a very smart girl with manners who know how to dress, and be sexy, but not slutty. She has a great sense of fashion and style, and is very confident in herself (but not too confident). She is caring and loyal, and knows how to have a real relationship. The kind of girl that looks serious and sophisticated (like me!) But is actually fun and exciting. It may seem shallow to some people, but she has to be stunningly beautiful to pull it all off (at least an 8/10), but I'm not THAT picky about looks. If they have the right personality it makes them seem much more physically attractive.
A classy girl:
* dresses beautiful while never like a hooker
* speaks and writes English properly, limiting slang and casual profanity - knows the difference between there, their, and they're
* let's a guy open a door for her
* knows the difference between a pinot noir, zin, and other wines, what they pair with, and orders them appropriately
* would never be caught dead drinking a white zinfandel
* can control her volume and excitement in a conversation
* controls her impulsiveness
* stands and walks with her back straight, sits with her legs crossed
* appreciates foreign travel, and I'm not talking about partying in Mexico for spring break
* doesn't associate with losers, wannabe criminals, or the like of either sex
If you cover most of this list you're probably a classy girl.
Nah I love classy women. To me I think classy all comes down to how the woman presents herself.
The clothes she wear does it make her look elegant, sophisticated? When she says hi to you and gets into a conversation is she talking in a calm settle tone where she guides you along with her beautiful presence.
I think in order to be classy they should be themselves but at the same time live by the moment and be at their best behaviour as the way they convey themselves to other people I'm not saying to become too self-conscious but I think confidence kind of comes in there it's very hard to explain.
To me the girls who are overly energetic can't really be considered classy in my eyes cause to me it seems like they are just a lot about fun and putting that energy out there.
It's because the guys you see are young and probably don't understand the long-term effects of being around such type.
What should she do for me to find her attractive? Not be classy or trashy. Lol I don't like either extremes, personally. Trashy feels like she as no respect for herself and classy feels like she has too much respect for herself. Classy woman are usually very well educated, intelligent, witty, romantic, well-spoken, elegant, etc. I'm not really interested in a relationship like that at all, though. However I'm also not interested in trashy women that dress scantily clad, act crazy, gossip constantly, are whiny and possessive, etc., either.
I'd consider a classy girl any girl who carries herself with confidence instead of relying on her body to get attention. Any girl who can approach me and is approachable without being sexual at all at first glance is classy. The clothes that she wears makes a bit of a difference. As long as she is decently covering the parts of the body that should be reserved for privacy, that's fine. If you're wearing shorts that show half your ass I would not consider that classy. And a lot of guys who chase after girls with crazy reputations and practically no clothing are guys looking to fuck. They most likely do not want a real relationship and if they did they wouldn't date a girl like that. Generally if a guy is trying to date someone they'll look more at personality and how it will be in the long run rather than cup size and how much skin is showing. I hope I helped.
A rich, supercilious bitch who thinks she's better than everyone.
Guys want to fuck. Seeking relationships comes second to that--and as a means to obtain sex. Some guys are more socially influenced to deny that they want to fuck 80% of the women out there; some guys are more socially influenced to prefer 'classy' women.
Generally, if you want to get laid, then go with the chick who will probably fuck you. If you want to have a relationship, go with the girl who doesn't have a crazy reputation--which means a steady stream of sex as opposed to hunting.
This is my personal opinion so it may differ somewhat from others.
A classy girl respects everybody around her and sees herself as equal to everyone. She doesn't talk down to anybody. She doesn't attract attention in anyway. She doesn't dress trashy and isn't too revealing. She's always got that perfect balance. She speaks very well and clearly and never swears or curses. She does not possess any disgusting habits such as spitting on the floor, smoking (it's a turn off for me) burping etc. She has this graceful walk that gives her an aura of elegance. She doesn't play games and is very calm and patient. Always keeps her cool.
I'll give you my list
-Manners and politeness. This is the biggest thing. She knows how to conduct herself depending on the situation. Also even if she is letting loose and relaxed, she still minds how she presents herself to others (the only person who should see her 100% loose is her boyfriend/husband).
-Dress code. I think knee length skirts or longer are classy. Also showing a little back and front cleavage is fine but not too much. Girl boots are cute and can be classy.
-Smarts. The girl has intelligence and wit, she knows how to have a smart conversation and you get the feeling you can actually learn things from her. Frankly I have always been most attracted to women who I feel can teach me a few things and introduce me to new experiences (not just sexual).
A girl who:
- Doesn't play games
- Knows what she wants (both in life and in a relationship)
- Is willing to put in the work to get what she wants
- Doesn't act entitled to shit just because she's a female
- Has self respect
- Is ambitious
- Isn't a cunt
Fancy clothes and jewlery, lots of "fashionable" items. Long nails, high heels, makeup. All that kind of jazz. Personally I don't like any of that stuff at all. I usually find even the idea of "classy" a turn-off. I don't really associate it with any kind of reputation other than being arrogant and entitled. I've seen girls try to present themselves as classy dressed modestly and with very revealing clothes, so I don't think that has anything to do with it either.
If you're looking for things to avoid I'd say high heels and jewelry. Large and/or lots of jewelry just looks bad to me and I've always felt that it makes people seem old as well.
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