So I was dating a guy for about a month, but it didn't work out, we didn't end it per se, but he basically disappeared and I didn't bother to try to reach out. This was about a month ago.
Recently I ran I to one if his close-ish friends, who asked me out. Would it be weird if I said yes? Should I give the original guy any warning, or is that his friends job?
If it matters, the only thing that happened between us was kissing, it never went further than that.
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Well, you didn't date very long. He is the one who asked you out. If there is to be any problem, it's probably going to be your ex being angry with his friend. But there's also the possibility that he already made sure it was okay with your ex. So I think it would be alright, just don't go too fast. Taking it slow seems to work out a lot better for me than jumping into things that I'm not comfortable with just so the other person is satisfied. It's your ex's fault that he didn't respond to you. If he doesn't put forward an effort to keep you then it's his loss. I say if you haven't talked to someone that you were in a relationship with in a while and you don't feel like you're dating, then it's pretty much the same thing as breaking up except with a little less drama.1