I've been guilty of this before, I may have semi frequently Facebook stalked my crush's ex girlfriend.
I don't know about guys, but plenty of girls I know have though/worried about, 'investigated' online or basically been curious or even obsessed with a boyfriend or guy they like's ex girlfriend.
I get sometimes they might be seen as a threat, but it happens even if they're not at all.
Like someone told me my ex's new girlfriend stalks my Instagram and asks people about me lol
Any idea why this happens? I'm curious
Most Helpful Guy
I have never done this. It's weakness, you shouldn't need to investigate anything about their ex. Your the person they are with now. You shouldn't have to compete with them because if you know the type of person you are and know your a good catch you shouldn't have to do all that.0
Most Helpful Girl
As I have grown to like my boyfriend more, I have become more jealous as well. But I recognize those feelings for what they are and try not to thinl of it, which I actually succeed in lol. Im not the jealous type. Just really am into my boyfriend. Because he makes me feel appreciated and has no problem answering questions about exes when I ask them, I dont feel insecure enough to do that. I know my boyfriend is more into me than he has been into his exes. Cool for me lol. It would b terrible otherwise. When I fall, I fall hard. I would expect the same from him. Its all or nothing at all for me.0