I would like to know what the a woman would consider the better first date. Would you like something very simple, like just coffee, or just lunch. Would you rather have something in a group setting? Would dinner and a movie work well? Or should a guy go all out with flowers and an expensive dinner? Does he have to 'wow' you on the first date?
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If you start with flowers and an expensive dinner, on your first date, where do you go from there? And what is a girl expected to do, on a first date, after getting flowers and eating an expensive dinner? That can get a bit awkward. My favorite first dates were always the simpler, lower-pressure affairs. Maybe drinks or lunch, or an inexpensive dinner, followed by a walk around the neighborhood, where we could talk but also where the occasional gap in the conversation wasn't too noticeable. What wows a girl on a first date is not flowers and foie gras -- it's meeting and getting to know a caring, funny, attentive guy who may be good boyfriend material. So keep the focus on that, and you'll do great. Good luck!3