While having drinks he confessed to having a crush on some girl from work, but also confessed to having a crush on me and not really being over it. He told me that he felt the other girl was out of his league while he was afraid to go for it with me. We all have different crushes on different people so I guess is not a big deal, but I can't help but to feel a little jealous. Would it bother you? would you feel insecure or a certain way about it? I'm not the one to feel insecure in a relationship, especially since most of the guys I've dated made me feel like I was the only one. I mean he's been really sweet and amazing after he confessed his crush to me which led to us kissing. He even called his best friend that day and told her about us and how all his "old" feelings for me came back after we kissed. He blushed when he was recalling the night when we first kissed and remembered every single detail. I mean i won't really put any importance to him having a crush on some other girl as long as it doesn't progress to nothing else but how would you feel? have you been in a similar situation?
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Personally, I would immediately stop whatever was going on between he and I. The situation sounds like a potential long term mess and it doesn't help that this other female he has a crush on works with him meaning they will constantly be spending time together. It's not really about feeling jealous or insecure for me but more about being at a point in my life where I avoid unnecessary drama. Guys who come with dramatic ass situations turn me off instantly. I find it to be a chore to deal with so I'll avoid it in order to preserve peace in my future. Realistically, there's a chance that they could end up fuqing each other in the future depending on how she feels :/ So yeah, if a guy told me that, I'd stop talking to him.
No, I have never been in that situation.0
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