This guy and I have been talking for almost a year online. We met up once and cuddled a bit/kissed briefly. He said he loved spending time with me. Now it's months later and we still haven't made plans to see eachother again, yet we talk daily. He told me that he is sort of stand offish from his past relationship, and also that he gets attached too easily, when I asked him about why things haven't progressed... But he did say he is interested in spending time with me and is attracted to me. I have a good number of guys hitting on me, which he knows about, and I also went on a date recently with a guy who is serious about me. Is he possibly too scared to make the move to go out again because the fear of attachment and competition of other guys? ... Or is he giving excuses for what really means "I just don't like you as much as I led on/you think"?
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Could be fear, could be intimidation, could be he has another girl, could be lots of things.
It's good that you're exploring other opportunities because his behavior sounds sort of unreliable and immature. He may genuinely like you, but if so then he just doesn't like you enough to actually spend time in person with you more than once, which is unfortunate. You deserve, and certainly can find, better. Good luck. :)0