While I think I'm too old to play games, I think I'm too honest and don't play hard to get. If I like someone, I usually show it.
Is there anything I should do? Any tricks? Not being too available? Not texting too much?
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The chase is possibly one of the most enjoyable stages in a relationship for both men and women. It builds up anticipation, sexual tension and is almost like a game. If you *mildly* reject a guy, it will make him want you all the more. He'll be more determined to get that forbidden apple. The woman will also feel more playful and wanted.
Now, if you put yourself out there for anyone to grab, it's a bit of a turnoff. Text him every once in a while, just to let him know that he's on his mind. Don't text him all day long though, you'll seem too clingy and talking can even get boring in the future as you would've already drained all the best topics. Now, you don't want to sit at the date in an awkward silence, right?
I know this sounds a bit silly, especially for your age. But heck, you only live once, might as well make the best out of the life you're given and enjoy it!1