Could you ever love a girl with scars?

Self harm scars.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • I had an ex who cut... which I think is worse than just the scars form the past in terms of dating. I am happy she got the help she needed and worked through it, but it was not possible while dating anyone...

    At the time though, it was rough but I still cared for her greatly.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Yes, why not?

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What Guys Said 10

  • Accident or surgery scars? No problems.
    Self harm, I'd want to be sure she's 100% over it.

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  • Yes I could, as long as she's done with that part of her life.

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  • Yes, as long as she promises to stop harming herself and become a happy person, because i don't want to be involved with a moody depressed girl, and its scary constantly having to worry for your loved ones life.

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  • yes I could

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  • Only if she has completely stopped self-harming and understands why it was wrong.

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  • Yes. But I'd make sure she wouldn't get any more

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  • yes, but i wouldn't recommend any girl to harm themselves

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  • Would I invest my time in such a girl - no.
    I've had my share of mentally unstable women... not something I plan on repeating.
    I prefer a relationship where I don't have to worry constantly and act as a caretaker.
    Too much stress and pressure.

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  • Sure, if she is pretty.

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  • Yes, scars tell a story, your story.

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What Girls Said 2

  • Everybody gets scars. If they're self harming scars, don't try to get into a relationship until you've stopped. Guys can love a girl with scars who used to self harm just fine if she is over it. If she is still doing it, then many would not feel comfortable in a relationship with that type of person. There are lotions/oils you can use to fade scars out like bio oil.

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  • Scars are evidence that you are stronger than whatever it is that tried " hurt" you

    As long as you are emotionally healed then i don't see why a guy wouldn't date you. Your strength of character defines you.. not your scars

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