Your major turn offs in the opposite gender?

1) Too short
2) Too skinny or too fat
3) Bad smell
4) Acne
5) Bad teeth


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Most Helpful Guy

  • 1) Facial hair - I shit you not. I saw a girl with a MUSTACHE once... MORE than once.
    2) Vanity and Gold-digging - Don't want to repeat a mistake a member of my family has made.
    3) Lack of ambition/desire - Someone with a conviction , a dream , something they want in life. That's sexy.
    4) Substance abuse - a bit of drinking and weed smoking is fine. I live clean myself but I can see the appeal but when it gets overboard , especially with cigs. No please.
    5) Conflicting beliefs - I'm an agnostic foremost , humanist second , progressive third. Let's not sacrifice our individuality for the other here.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Why most of the guys anomonoyous?
    1) Disrespectful/A jerk
    2) Overly gossips about negative things or shit talks about people (or spreads rumors)
    3) Does whatever their friends do and doesn't think for themselves
    4) Closed-minded
    5) Has mental problems like bipolarness (I had bad experience with this)
    6) Expects me to be a certain way and thinks less of me when I don't fit their standards (such as thinking that I should have a big butt or dress a certain way)
    7) unhealthy body weight
    8) No manners or table manners
    9) Really judgmental

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What Guys Said 30

  • - Religious
    - Smokes
    - Does drugs
    - Likes Justin Bieber
    - Likes Twilight
    - Likes 50 Shades of Grey
    - Thinks in terms of how "manly" or "womanly" someone is
    - Hates people for acne even though that's a condition you can't really control

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  • Drinks too much
    Drinks too much
    Drinks too much
    Drinks too much
    Drinks too much

    Sorry for repeating. I had an alcoholic girlfriend for years. Never again. Never never never.

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  • Smoking.
    Drugs.
    Alcohol addiction.
    Close-mindedness
    Insecurity.(low self esteem)
    Shallow.
    Inadventurous.
    Piercings.
    Doesn't want to advance herself (can't keep up with me)
    No trust in herself (or me)

    To name some.

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  • Arrogant
    Lack of intelligence
    Immaturity
    Lazy
    Bitchy
    Can't or won't support herself: as in lives of off unemployment willingly or something similar.
    Doesn't want kids or marriage or both
    Shallowness
    Feminazi

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  • 1. unappealing face
    2. big
    3. poor personal hygiene
    4. lack of intelligence
    5. no taste when it comes to clothing

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  • Smelling bad is less of a turn-off than being short is? =O

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  • Sarcastic
    Worries about their weight
    Materialistic
    Bad breathe

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  • 1) If she is higher then a 3/10 on the look scale

    thats about it really.

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  • *Drugs
    *Tattoo's
    *Exotic piercings
    *Butch hair cuts
    *Ego trips
    *Self absorbed
    *Gold digging
    *Narcissist
    *Hypocrite

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  • 1) Opposing political beliefs
    2) Ignorance/stupidity
    3) Manipulative/Passive-Aggressive
    4) Tries to change something about me that isn't her business
    5) Controlling/ Wants my passwords
    6) Bad teeth
    7) Overly skinny/ overly fat

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  • Out of shape
    not attractive
    slutty style
    dull/not ambitious
    religious/believes in horoscopes and shit
    drugs/smoke
    feminazi
    to many piercings
    drinks too much
    unhappy

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  • 1. Obese/fat - usually an automatic turn off
    2. What I call a "butterface" (like but-her-face) - nice body but if her face is not up to par it can be a major turn off
    3. If she has kids or is in a relationship - turn off
    4. If she sleeps around - even if she is the hottest girl if she sleeps around that is an automatic disqualified
    5. If she is too weird - a little bit of quirkiness and oddness is OK but if it is too overpowering that bugs me

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    • -Also tatoos, piercings (other than modest ear piercing), gauges

  • 1) Too tall
    2) Fat
    3) Poor hygiene
    4) Religious
    5) Frigid
    6) Bitchy
    7) Gold digger

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  • 1) Insecure
    2) Too fat or too skinny
    3) Ugly face
    4) No sense of humor
    5) Too shy

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  • 1. fat
    2. smoking
    3. acne or otherwise "strange" skin
    4. tattoos and piercings.

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  • I have similar list, just replace the first with, "Too tall."

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  • Bitchy, lazy, bad hygiene, no humor, talk about people behind their back

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  • 1, Arrogance
    2, Ignorance
    3, lack of Respect for self/others
    4, Swearing
    5, Chewing Gum

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  • 1) Feminist
    2) Black
    3) Small breasts
    4) Liberal
    5) Dislikes Next Gen

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  • I think its bad smell

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  • nose ring
    cockiness
    obesity

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  • all above...

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  • Dishonesty
    Shallowness
    Emotionally abusive behavior
    Exploitative behavior
    Scheming and manipulation
    Sloth
    Parasitic tendencies
    Mean-spiritedness

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  • Too short.
    Too fat.
    Bitchy.

    That's about it.

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  • 1. Atheists or Radical Liberals
    2. Too skinny or too fat
    3. Feminists
    4. Rude or always angry
    5. Manipulative
    6. Dishonest
    7. History of cheating or sleeping around

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  • Vaginas. I mean, WTF? They look some something from an alien planet, they smell funky, and wow, just how far back do they go?

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  • 1) Girls who say a guy is too short.
    2) Girls who say a guy is too skinny or too fat
    3) Bad BO I agree with
    4) Acne? okay fine
    5) Girls who say a guy has bad teeth

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  • Too fat I LOVE SKINNY girls <3
    Bad smell
    acne
    Bad teeth
    No sense for humor
    Can't think on her own.
    Following trends to be "famous"
    Egoistic
    Taking selfies and sharing to social media for no reason - HATE THAT! Girls do that to boost EGO.
    and so on

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    • and yes also tatoos and smoking TURN OFF

  • Small boobs
    Big boobs
    Medium boobs
    No boobs
    All boobs

    Just kidding!

    Hygiene
    Bad personality
    Lack of ambition
    Smoking
    Overly shy

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  • 1) Too short
    2) Too skinny or too fat
    3) Bad smell
    4) Acne
    5) Bad teeth

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What Girls Said 19

  • 1) Eating loudly or with mouth open
    2) Biting nails and / or licking fingers after eating
    3) Talking about exs on dates

    All of those things you said also. But my one and two are absolute DEALBREAKERS!

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  • 1. pride
    2. douche
    3. drugs
    4. smoker
    5. lazy
    6. bad hygiene
    7. clingy

    to name a few.

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  • I know you're asking for physical attributes but I personally can't stand arrogance, over-inflated egos, and unwarranted cockyness. I will walk out on a date.

    Physically I dislike bad teeth (yellow, decayed, or bad breath) because that shows a man has poor hygiene and that's unacceptable! He can't be smelly like B. O. or ass because I just won't ever see you again. -_- Finally he should have nice short hair, preferably with a clean cut. I miiiight make an exception for long hair if he looks good in it and takes good care of it. He should have nice feet... I have nice feet so should my man! 😆

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    • What makes feet nice? O. o

    • If they're clipped and not smelly. There's stuff for that at the pharmacy so no excuses! Smelly shoes and feet gross me out. >.< I take care of my feet, if my man really was clueless or couldn't help having smelly feet I'd hook him up but I'd expect some kind of continued effort. It's a part of good hygiene.

  • •Cockiness
    •Bad hygene
    •Over sensitive
    •Clingy
    •Drinks too much
    •Smokes/does drugs
    •Extremely religious
    •Compulsive liar
    •Close-mindedness
    •Has really bad taste in music (what I would consider bad taste in music, that is)

    My plan was to just include like five, don't really know what happened there...

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  • Bad smell is #1.
    Then teeth and acne if they're really bad.

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  • 1. Smokes, does drugs or is an alcoholic.
    2. Are mean or judgmental. I really hate people who judge others based on what they personally wouldn't do or are just mean in general, like stop.
    3. Gives no shits about their appearance/health. Looks aren't everything but take care of yourself. I like people who dress well, too.
    4. Joke about things that really aren't funny or jokes about literally everything. Sometimes things need to be serious and some stuff aren't funny no matter what.
    5. No ambition or motivation. It really grinds my gears, there must be something you strive for.

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  • 1. Bad hygiene
    2. Clingy
    3. Too damn insecure and needs constant reassurance
    4. Can't stand up for himself
    5. Too short
    6. Doesn't respect others
    7. Bad manners and addictions
    8. Religious
    9. Dishonest and not trustworthy
    10. Closed-minded

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  • Disloyal
    Racist
    Short
    Smoker
    Liar
    A cheater or has a history of cheating
    Unhygienic
    Abusive (verbal or physical) because I will end up in jail AND ORANGE DOES NOT LOOK GOOD ON ME!

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  • -religious
    -annoying
    -sensitive
    -bad hygiene
    -wants kids/marriage
    -chest hair
    -traditional
    -uptight

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  • My turnoffs in a potential partner include:
    Smelling Bad
    Smoking (I am allergic to tobacco smoke)
    Poor hygiene (especially dental hygiene)
    Dishonesty
    A lack of commitment
    Masculinity
    Facial hair
    Sexism, racism or being really offensive toward another culture or minority in general
    Having a self-centered attitude
    Thinking of everything in terms of winning or losing (and especially looking to start an argument or enter into a debate with this mindset)

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    • Masculinity is a turn off? Why?

    • @Riverock I am bi and mostly into girls, since you asked. The last time I dated a boy, which was back in hs, he was so andro that some of my friends did not even realize. I do like guys, it is just that a really manly guy does not really click with me.

      The masculinity thing is like, competitiveness turns me off, I have really sensitive skin so facial hair just irritates me and makes everything itchy, muscular appearances do not really turn me on, loud people easily intimidate me when I do not have a computer screen to hide behind, and I am afraid (legitimately afraid) of drunk guys if I do not know them really well and sometimes even if I do. Plus a lot of stereotypical masculine interests in things like fighting, drinking, sports, cars and actiony things are just lost on me, and I know a lot of guys do not enjoy girly talk when we are constantly talking about feelings, or clothes, or colors, or relationships, or aesthetic. So, I summed it up with masculinity. Is there a better word?

    • No actually that makes sense. Thank you for answering. :)

  • 1) douchebag
    2) compulsive liar
    3) bad smell
    4) bad manners
    5) Asian girl fetish

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    • Ah I'd like to add compulsive lier to my list!

    • Asian girl fetish😂 I forgot this... I don't know why but I find this fetish creepy

  • 1) Bad breath
    2) Smells like sweat
    3) Manboobs
    4) Constantly trying to prove his manliness
    5) Smoking
    6) Insisting I do stuff which I already refused
    7) Devoutly religious

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  • Probably just like

    Bad hygiene
    Bad attitude
    Smoking
    Bad manners

    in no order
    there's probably more, that's just what i thought of in the two seconds i thought about it. lol

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  • 1. Smoking
    2. Drugs
    3. Cares about what other people think about him
    4. Poser
    5. Close minded

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  • 3) Bad smell
    5) Bad teeth

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  • Bad smell ^-^

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  • 1.) Too old
    2.) Fat
    3.) Bad morals
    4.) Does drugs
    5.) Lack of confidence
    6.) Excessive swearing and slang
    7.) Perverted
    8.) Racist, Homophobic, or Transphobic
    9.) Unintelligent
    10.) Lazy

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  • 3 and 5. Sometimes 4 if it's really bad.

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  • 1) same as you listed
    2) same as you listed
    3) unambitious
    4) doesn't care about his health
    5) uses tobacco
    6) is religious
    7) full of himself

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