For instance, hardly anyone seems to care about a woman's social status or skills. The only exception I can think of a woman of average or good looks not succeeding in the dating world is if she's a hermit, too afraid of meeting others or doesn't even smile when talking to her.
I think in that sense women have it at all easier for these reasons:
- If she's not confident and shy, it can be considered cute and she's a keeper
- She doesn't have a car nor even knows how to drive and hardly anyone cares. If she's interest in learning and guy is patient, he can teach her.
- She only has a HS diploma or even dropped out of HS and she still easily gets into a relationship... certain girls like that even get married.
- She has no friends at all and it's a ''Who cares, she's a keeper''.
- She's still living with her parents at the age of 20+ and it's not too bad. Most would think she's saving money to eventually move out when the right time comes.
- She isn't pressured too much to have a relationship or a casual date at the age of 16+. If she's a 23+ year-old virgin, the reaction is either totall indifference or ''oh yessss, she's a keeper''
All that in a guy and he's considered a weirdo, loser or social inapt. Yet, in a woman nope and instead she's a keeper. Basically, a girl doesn't put too much effort and as long as it's ok looking, takes care of herself and a nice person that's it.
Most Helpful Girl
Well why not get skills and have ambition. That would solve a lot of your concerns. It is easier to see why a girl lives at home but they want out too. I moved out asap! We want to step into the adult world. I dated guys that live with their mom at '34 and they are still living with mom to this day! They play video games and stuff. They have zero ambition. They don't sleep at night they sleep during the day. I thought he was in transition but no that became his normal. It isn't easy to be a female feeling like you are not as eye catching as the next girl. But if that makes u feel better assume it. Stop making excuses take charge of your life women dug that shit.1
Most Helpful Guy
They have an easier time finding guys to take them on dates and a MUCH easier time finding guys who want to have sex with them. The only girls who can't get easy sex are like you said really shy physically deformed. Now while girls have an easier time ATTRACTING mates they don't have an easier time getting guys to stay with them/make a serious commitment or finding the "right person".
Ugly girls are fucked. Guys have the option of working on their careers to make up for their ugliness but guys don't give a shit about a girls status so if a girl is legitimately ugly, she is fucked.
I think its stupid when guys say girls control them or have power over them. As long as you never move in with a girl, get one pregnant, or marry one, a girl never has any real power over you.3