I'm definitely not gay. I'm starting 10th grade of public school here in September, my second year of High School, and I have never dated anyone before. I've never even had an intrest in any of my peers. I have lots of friends that are always talking about girls and liking them, then finding out they like them back and all that sort of thing, but I have never thought to myself "Oh she's cute" or anything like that. I'm not even attracted to any good looking people, because I feel like I need to know them in order to like them, but I dont know how to get to know anyone really--Especially girls. I have 2 or 3 friends that are female and I dont have any strong feelings towards them, and its obvious they they dont towards me.
I honestly dont even know where to begin or what this means, even though this is probably normal I'm guessing. Does anyone have anything to say about this? Or has had a similar experience?
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It may simply be you haven't found anyone near you who you are romantically interested in. There are also aromantic people, who only want/like non-romantic relationships, and demi-romantic people, who only feel like they could be in a relationship with someone after they know them well and have an emotional connection. Does any of this come close to how you feel?1