An old classmate of mine randomly sent me a message, and we chatted for 45 minutes. He asked if I ever wanted to go out for coffee sometimes, and I told him I have a boyfriend. He apologized, and said that he'll back off. He was obviously flirting with me. I remained friendly and neutral. He asked once again that if I'm ever free we should grab some lunch or whatever. I said sure to be polite, but I'm honestly not interested. I know I should of said no, but I figured that making friends isn't harmful. I plan on telling my boyfriend about the conversation, bit I'm not going to make it a big deal or anything. I just want to know if I said the wrong response to this guy's offer. I'm hoping that he'll just forget that he ever offered me out for coffee and that it will be the past. And if he asks again, I'll politely decline, but I just wanna know if I did anything wrong?
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Naw you're fine. As long as you tell him and he understands it's all good. At least you have the courage to tell him and worry. Some girls don't. In my book a friendly lunch with a guy that you're not attracted to is fine as long as I'm told about it beforehand.1