I'm 26 and she's 19. We have known each other for a year and have been living together for ten months. So we got in a huge fight on christmas eve, On christmas day she tells me that we should take a break that she is bored of me and are relationship. Not sure if I should be texting her or not she keeps texting me then it seems like she trys to pick a fight. I do love her and want her in my life.
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Oh dude for gods sake! what is it with you older guys and those little girls? BORED of you?
You get bored and excited about someone you're on a fling with, or having some casual fun, ya'know... but you want her in your life? I beg of you, rethink this. Think about how many sleepless nights you're going to spend tihnking about what kind of "exciting fun" she is having away from you when she does that in the future. I assure you, if she did and said it the first time, it's only going to get worse from now on.
Stop texting her, SHOW her you're not that interested, use her same weapon to make her worried, make her think you know how to spend a good time, too. Make her insecure, stop the lame romances... if after one month she didn't come back running to you, then she doesn't deserve you, send her a text then saying: "go play with someone's your age, I got myself a real woman and I never get bored of her".