I am about 5'4 and the man I am seeing is 6'4. I am 28 and he's 41. I don't even wear high heels, mostly like sandals and wedges. He seems to get uncomfortable when I wear them. This is his first time mentioning it to me. He was not rude or disrespectful but was like do you always wear heels. What could be the issue. Like I sad, they are usually wedge like sandals with low heels. I also wore a dress and because my butt is kinda big it looked shorter int he back.
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Not a clue, frankly! I don't know any guy who prefers a girl to wear flats - not one. At the very least guys are ambivalent about heels, but most very much prefer them, and the higher the better so long as it stays the right side of classy. The only possible reason I'd have suggested is insecurity over height if the guy is short - that's clearly not the case here. If pushed, the only other conceivable explanation is insecurity over you looking sexier in heels (because, let's face it, you just do!) - especially as he's older, maybe he's insecure that you'll catch the eye of a younger, fitter guy. In which case that's 100% his problem - you wear what you feel good in. I'm a similar age to that guy and let me tell you, it would never cross my mind to try to de-sexify (nicely made up word there) a girl I was dating - I'd think myself very lucky and be more than happy to 'show you off'!! :)0
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