I'm not saying that guys never feel heart broken but in most cases. Girls are usually the I ones that spend sleepless nights crying, over thinking, and go through total devastation while guys usually get over girls quicker, or can use a girl for sex and not feel guilty, or play/ lead a girl on and go on completely unaffected and aware of the damage they've caused. In MOST cases it seems like girls love harder and give give give while all guys do is take take take. Things like this make me want to be a guy. Because everyone fights for their attention and girl wants to be the girl to mean That much to him, that he changes his ways so they give themselves false hope and critic every little flaw they have which leads to feelings of inadequacy. How can guys not really have a lot of emotion while girls are overwhelmed with it?
Most Helpful Guy
Just to point out it's not always the case, I have only had about four relationships at the age of 20, I'm not like most guys by any means, I'm as genuine as you could imagine.
My last girlfriend broke up with me because she was raped the year prior and around the one year on mark she got depressed, too depressed, we broke up after a month trying to sort everything out, I remained close to look out for her.
It's now been about two years, god knows how many times I've helped her, she's suicidal occasionally and I have spent days without sleep to sit up and talk her out of it, I have done everything I can do to help her and then some. I just wanted to get this out there.0
Most Helpful Girl
I am pretty sure that is not true. Most guys learn to hide it though.0