Why is it hard for people to remain 100% loyal to the one they say they're in love with?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • There are three basic kinds of love. There is instinctive attachment, the most common example is the love of a parent for a child. Another example is the bond forged between people in stressful situations such as soldiers. Then there is the love of a close bond forged through long familiarity where personalities actually meld, long married couples and close siblings are good examples. Finally there is sexual infatuation. This generally happens when an ordinary attraction is amplified by a feedback loop in the brain between attraction and inhibition building until inhibition is overwhelmed. In extreme cases this also partakes of the instinctive attachment since it becomes something like a traumatic event.

    None of these has anything much to do with loyalty, as in sexual continence, that is a notion attached to love by cultural conventions, not a natural outgrowth.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • The majority of people are fickle and they lack willpower. Whenever the opportunity knocks their door, they open it. They find it hard to control themselves. It's hard to find a person who holds on to their values.

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What Guys Said 5

  • I personally don't think it is hard. However in our society we over sexualize everything to he point where I imagine some see it as perfectly okay to indulge any and all fantasies they have regardless of how it affects others. Its everywhere and it can have an affect on how people percieve sex. That said, find someone of good character who isn't impulsive and tends to think out his actions, he is more likely to reflect on his own thoughts and actions and decide a course of action that would not cause harm to others.

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  • Well the easy and simple answer is simply temptation and weak will.

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  • Too much temptations?

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    • but if you say you're in love with someone you shouldn't have temptations you should just be all about that one person

    • Actions speak louder than words and although someone says they are in love with you completely they may not show it as much, and therefore contradicting themselves. In any case, yes if you truly love someone then you wouldn't cheat on them in the first place, you would remain loyal no matter what the circumstances are

    • Right so at the end of the day, the person obviously isn't in love with you.

  • I dont think you can be dis-loyal to someone you supposely love. When you love someone you feel like you can't live without them and you would never do anything to hurt that person. Cheating on her/him you provd that you didn't love him.

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  • What's your idea of 100% loyal?

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