We've been together for a year and I haven't meet her family yet because she's been busy. So I want to take family out to dinner is that a Good idea?
- Surprise her with the dinnerVote A
- Tell her I'm taking her out for dinnerVote B
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Don't surprise her with dinner with her family, because it would be forcing the decision on her without consulting her.
Talk with her. You've been together for a year. It's time to trust her. If meeting her parents is important to you, make sure that she knows that. If she's just dodging the issue, she may have a reason that she doesn't want her family to meet you. Maybe she thinks her family's a bunch of dicks and doesn't want to scare you away.
Consider asking her to meet your family first, especially if you're anxious about that.
If she really just has no time, ask her if you can arrange dinner.1