I've noticed that whenever I've attracted a man, he's always been white and European (from all areas). I'm a black American woman, who has been told that I have a super relaxed attitude, have a lot of confidence, intellectual, ambitious, and I also refuse to dumb myself down or make myself inferior for a man. I also take pride in my appearance and the way I dress reflects it (I don't even wear tshirts in public). Physically, I'm slim with a somewhat athletic build. I've notice that my personality turns guys here off when it comes to relationships but they still tell me I'm cool, while European and first generation American men think I'm cool and actually pursue me.
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"have a lot of confidence" and that's your answer1