I don't know I'm really over all that "men should pay" crap. Like if I'm with a guy and he's a bit broke that week,, I'll pay half for dinner. Like it's honestly not a big deal to me. We're all equal! I mean if he says "YOU PAY" then it's a different story, but if I offer like it's whatever.
Most Helpful Guy
Yes men should be chivalrous to a point. I think some traditions are simply good manners and serve a good purpose. I think the biggest problem now is that kindness and respect for people are no longer virtues. They seem to be dismissed as that "silly tradition" geezers did back in the day. It's sad really, how we strip down people into categories of objects rather than as the emotional human beings we are.2
Most Helpful Girl
Everyone should be respectful, period.
Although, if he says "id like to take you to dinner" id expect him to pay since he is inviting. If he said "lets get dinner" thats different.2