I started liking a guy but my feelings freaked me out. I became crazy like waiting by my phone till I desided enough was enough. I text him saying I just want to be friends. He responded sounding confused about why I made this change. I didn't really go into details. He said he respects what I want but the truth is i dont know what I want. I text him today saying how I truly felt. That I like him and it scares the shit out of me. I'm not quite happy about the text message. I sort of sound like a psychopath. Truth is I feel like I might have pushed him further away than he already was and I'm tempted to just block him out of shame. I don't blame him for never wanting to date me again.
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First of all, girl, breathe. I know how scary and nerve-wracking it is to share your feelings. It leaves you completely vulnerable, and I absolutely hate that feeling too, since I have a strong fear of getting hurt. But I would not be too worried. You were right to tell him how you feel because you absolutely do not want any misunderstandings. Your feelings need to be clear to him, so that he may be honest with his feelings for you as well. Although I would be tempted to do the same in your position, I advise you not to block him just yet. I would wait out and see his response before jumping to conclusions. You just conveyed your feelings for him, so he might still be sorting out his own feelings because he might just be as confused as you are. Just wait a while, maybe a week or two tops. I wish you all the best, and remember breathe, girl, breathe!1