We are just friends but I like her. I think bringing up my feelings could compromise the friendship as we've talked about it once before a while back and to go back to it.. I could see how she would be frustrated with me. Part of me feels like I need to get it off my chest as a no regrets kind of thing. Part of me just doesn't want to lose the friendship BUT at the same time whenever we hang out I think about her more and more as someone I want to date.
Anyways, should I tell her before we hang out that I have something to say? That way I can't back out? (i don't want to do the whole thing over the phone)
Should I just dissappear on her and delete her # and social media & begin the process of forgetting her?
What is the most respectful way to go about this? I'd say the way that might peak her interest in me but I'm getting to the point of giving up on her so even saying that feels desperate.
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I think it's best to be honest. If she doesn't like you that way you can both laugh it off and still be friends. It's only awkward if you think it is. Not very healthy to keep your feelings hidden too. Don't leave her hanging I think she'll feel far worse and confused, that's quite a selfish thing to do. You go bro, be a man!0
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