Been best friends with. A girl for about 8 years, just last year she told me I'd make a great boyfriend and that one day shed want to be with me but at the time she was in a relationship she has sense then left that relationship of 2 years and we are now headed into college she knows my feeling s for her and said she only sees me as a friend, I tried cutting her off after that but as of right now I she's to valuable to me as a friend to do that plus we started arguing sense this summer and I almost completely pushed her away which i know is wrong of me to do sense I have been by her side for 8 years so I basically leveraged the friendship for now just to avoid completely loosing her but I know I still want something with her in the future and I'm willing to distance myself If thats what it takes but I need to know what to do
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There's nothing in the near future TO do, pal. She's shopping for something hotter, that she can't resist and probably will fall for a guy that provides something out of this world temporarily to her. You are her "back up plan", "golden parachute" and such people usually die on the vine if they sit & wait.
That said, I did get out of the FZ... the rest of that story = www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1659698-why-is-it-the-ones-you-want-never-want-you-the-ones-you-don-t-want1